Mom's Work Diaries

Living in 21 st century is life of freedom. Many of us were able to made their choices. Freedom to choose your life partner, freedom to choose your career, freedom to wear what you want to etc. Still, we’re not happy with the results of these choices we made. We’re still struggling each day to make things easier and happier for ourselves and our loved ones. Sometimes we feel suffocated in a relationship, Sometime we feel the workplace is not correct place where we belong. Sometime it also seems after putting so much efforts we still can’t afford something! Isn’t it a time to do some self-assessment? Year 2020 has put us in too much chaos, but it has also given us time to be with our selves. Sailing in a same boat, we can realize the essentials ingredients of our lives. This is the time to realize that only you and you have the superpower to fight with the issues you are facing with anything! You might have seen the quotes say that there is no place to find ...

Dealing with someone who is apple of your eye is always difficult as you just can’t be rude enough to scold them ever. But whatever you have to do is for your loved one and so it’s important. Here I am sharing some tips to make your work easy, let me know if it worked? or you have better ideas by sharing it we can help other moms? 1. Know their perspective and give them options First of all the main thing you need is to be ice headed and be calm. Listen to them, Just don’t react on their first sentence. Let them finish try to rectify why they want to do that? Then put your options and try to convince them with your options. But make sure they don’t feel that you’ve rejected their opinion. 2. Don’t say No Think about your conversations with your kid, you’ll realize that you are answering them with NO for most of their questions. You need to fix this. Don’t say no, say yes. Gain their trust again and in other time make them understand what can be go to YES cat...

After a busy or tired day, at night in bed mostly we end up scrolling social media. Our excuse is “I don’t have time for myself, so at least at night I need some me time”. But trust me it’s a magical time for you and your little one. Start talking to your child as a daily routine, as him what they did whole day, how was their day – even if you were together for whole day. They’ll Understand Values of things They’ll surely have different story than what you see. Share your childhood stories with them, your incidents with their grandpa and granny (your mom dad) they’ll enjoy that too and more importantly, they’ll be able to see the difference and values in hidden things. Stronger Bond They’ll have this little talk as daily routine from the very little age, so even after getting older they don’t hesitate to share things with you. They’ll be knowing they can share everything with you and this helps your bond with them very very stronger. They know you love the...

It's easy to handle 2 things together for working mom. first the baby and of course job/work. but there is some other very important and beautiful part is also there - Your Partner! After being the mom you majorly concentrate on your work and baby as you continue having that in mind that your baby needs you, they are almost dependent on you, but sometimes we forget to think about to our partner. Your partner is also the one who loves you and needs you the most your motherhood has also bring fatherhood to him. We instantly change all priority to our baby and start expecting from our partner to do same. Here I am describing some of them. We want them to Not interrupt in our precious after job - baby mommy time. After a busy day in office when you are back to home and see your baby coming to you for a hug is the best feeling ever, you simply don't want anyone to bother you when you are with your baby after a long day. Now just think about your evenings before y...

Babies don't come with a Manual - They come with "MOM". there are many phrases on Mom-child relationship concluding Moms always knows what baby wants or only mom can understand their baby better than anyone else in this world and many more... This is true at some point but not at the starting time. It's all blank. When baby suddenly starts crying - A new mom has No idea what it could be? What reason might be there? So here I am sharing a common checklist for all first time mommies. Check if they have Poop or their nappies needs to be changed As babies are on breastfeeding or on not much solid food, they pee quite often. Keep checking their diapers or pants. Check if there was any mosquito around Many times you'll realize a baby is suddenly starting crying - you must check for mosquito. Also most of the times they fell asleep while feeding which leads milk drops to your bed and attracts ants - So you better check this case. Check if they ha...

It's really ridiculous, which society we're living? which era we are in? As a Working Mom - We all work so very hard, kill our emotions and go to the office just to have a better future for our kids. A future where they can live a better life, but after reading these incidents I mostly doubt my self - Can we really have this for our kids?? We're sending them to school/Activity classes anywhere - Are they safe? My little girl is about to start her school in while. After reading this kind of incidents I was thinking of checking School background, the School staff. I was about to check the ratio of male teachers, I was about to check the peons, the school drivers, and foremen. As I have majorly heard this kind of incidents, but after this, I am just so disturbed!!! Do I need to check the background of each and every student also? I doubt my self - Can I do this? Do I have to even track daily activity of each and everything where my daughter is going? I d...