Pregnant Moms mostly gets confused that what they'll need while being in the hospital. While being pregnant, you can still visit the store and see things you like/dislike. So here is checklist for you which includes even some personal stuff you'll prefer to purchase your self and have it in your bag:) Have kurtas/T-Shirts It's obvious you'll put your clothes, but make sure you have t-shirt or kurtas with slit at the side. A gown or Anarkali style kurta won't be easy to handle as you need to feed your baby. If its Anarkali kurta or long gown - It will be hard to pull all cloth upside and have your little one inside. Have Sanitary Pads or Maternity Pads In many cases, we can not predict that either it will be normal delivery or c Section or what. So it's better to keep these pads whichever you prefer as it's not the period that will stop in 5 Days :) It might take longer than that. So you have to choose the softer one which you can have until lo...
Dealing with someone who is apple of your eye is always
difficult as you just can’t be rude enough to scold them ever. But whatever you
have to do is for your loved one and so it’s important.
Here I am sharing some tips to make your work easy, let me
know if it worked? or you have better ideas by sharing it we can help other
moms?
1. Know their perspective and give them options
First of all the main thing you need is to be ice headed and
be calm. Listen to them, Just don’t react on their first sentence. Let them
finish try to rectify why they want to do that?
Then put your options and try to convince them with your
options. But make sure they don’t feel that you’ve rejected their opinion.
2. Don’t say No
Think about your conversations with your kid, you’ll realize
that you are answering them with NO for most of their questions. You need to
fix this.
Don’t say no, say yes. Gain their trust again and in other
time make them understand what can be go to YES category and what to the NO.
As soon as they start understanding this they’ll avoid to
come to you for NO category questions.
3. Punishment for stubbornness
When kids are being stubborn many parents lose their cool
and end up by raising their voice or a slap. Unfortunately, it’s not the
solution. You’ve to be gentle while dealing with them.
Make them feel that you don’t like what they did, Make them
feel they did wrong stop talking to them as part of punishment. Ask someone
else from family to deal with them for some time but while practicing this be
percent in the room. This will help to have good bond between both of you.
4. Daily habits
Make daily schedule and make them realize the set of
tasks/habits they should obey. Sometimes kids deny to perform daily activity
like brushing their teeth, having bath etc. make them understand and set a
routine for them with examples ie. You can only have breakfast if you had brush
your teeth.
(with this you can also make a story saying some one was not
regularly brushing their teeth and had infection and became sick and had to
visit to the doctor and you’re worried it will happen to them also if they
don’t have this practice)
Once their daily schedule is set it will be big relief for
you as you don’t need to shout on them on same thing daily.
5. Take a Break
Take a break from your daily schedule spent time with your
little one. It will make them assure that you love them a lot and this warm
feeling can work like a magic for your relationship. You can also negotiate
with your baby that you are not always strict to them but you also care for
their happiness.
(It’s obvious that you love them to the moon and back but
probably they are not at the age where they can understand this, so you have to
make them realize this by your actions)
Bonus: Make them Understand
Communication is best thing to bring clarity in any
relationship at any age. Communication is not just with words, you can
communicate with your action, your behavior and even with a good hug.
You’ve to find out the suitable language by which you can
communicate with your kid and make them understand that whatever you are doing
– By saying YES or NO to their any question it’s for their good deed.
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