Pregnant Moms mostly gets confused that what they'll need while being in the hospital. While being pregnant, you can still visit the store and see things you like/dislike. So here is checklist for you which includes even some personal stuff you'll prefer to purchase your self and have it in your bag:) Have kurtas/T-Shirts It's obvious you'll put your clothes, but make sure you have t-shirt or kurtas with slit at the side. A gown or Anarkali style kurta won't be easy to handle as you need to feed your baby. If its Anarkali kurta or long gown - It will be hard to pull all cloth upside and have your little one inside. Have Sanitary Pads or Maternity Pads In many cases, we can not predict that either it will be normal delivery or c Section or what. So it's better to keep these pads whichever you prefer as it's not the period that will stop in 5 Days :) It might take longer than that. So you have to choose the softer one which you can have until lo...
It's easy to handle 2 things together for working mom. first the baby and of course job/work.
but there is some other very important and beautiful part is also there - Your Partner!
After being the mom you majorly concentrate on your work and baby as you continue having that in mind that your baby needs you, they are almost dependent on you, but sometimes we forget to think about to our partner.
Your partner is also the one who loves you and needs you the most your motherhood has also bring fatherhood to him. We instantly change all priority to our baby and start expecting from our partner to do same.
Here I am describing some of them.
We want them to Not interrupt in our precious after job - baby mommy time.
After a busy day in office when you are back to home and see your baby coming to you for a hug is the best feeling ever, you simply don't want anyone to bother you when you are with your baby after a long day.
Now just think about your evenings before your baby, there was your partner - your whole world was just wrapped around him.
You might become home and wait for him, cooking for him and waiting for the time when he is with you and you can have a tight hug :)
We suddenly start expecting him to do their almost all stuff by their own.
Before your baby, you guys might be shopping together, have long drives have different plans for weekends and many more.But after a baby, we suddenly start to expect him to take care of their shopping and all by their selves.
Can't we plan it on weekends? or on some time again together?
We want him to plan his all work according to your and your baby's convince.
Previously you might be discussing your job schedules, you plan something as per your both's convenience.
But after a baby, it all becomes about when its suitable for you and your baby? We just ignore that he is also having a job - He also has to manage things.
We want him to arrange all things for festivals
Before having your baby, you start your festival preparation all with your husband. Shopping, sweets, holiday etc.But after having a baby, you just divide it by your self that you'll be taking care of baby and baby's needs and your partner will be the one who will prepare rest of things
We almost want him to be what he has no idea!
Many times you'll have a fight on as they just can't understand what you expect from him? and you are also right at your place as you just don't expect anything else from his end rather than just being a family man.
But we've to always make sure that before being a full-time mom, you are a loving wife/partner. Spare time for him, love him. He is the one who has passed to this change in you without any complain and still loves you like anything.
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